I haven’t been blogging much lately, I know. But it’s tough
to maintain anything even close to resembling a schedule when you’re busy fucking
your way across America (28 states filmed and counting!) I never know when I’ll
even have good cell coverage, never mind a decent Wi-Fi connection. It’s been amazing seeing this country and
meeting people from so many walks of life. I've been truly fortunate to have met so many
generous and fantastic people and I can’t say thank you enough to everyone who
has donated time, money, participation, or support to #ColbyDoesAmerica.
(Photo: wadleyphotography.com | IG: instagram.com/wadleywadley)
Filming is still going strong (I'm in Chicago for a few more
days to cross Illinois off my list, then off to cover more of this great
nation!) and we have now have 6 videos (Maine, Massachusetts, Maryland, New
York, Oregon, and West Virginia) available for viewing at
www.colbydoesamerica.com. Lately, though, I've been wondering about something I've encountered more than once that totally baffles me: the non-hookup hookup. I'm not talking about
catfishing (that’s a completely different kind of evil), I’m talking about the
guys who go to the effort to set up a Grindr or Scruff profile, make an online connection,
actually show up to the agreed upon location… and then fall flat, so to
speak. I mean, I get that shit happens.
And if it were a one-time (or even two-time) thing, it would be easy enough to
chalk up to being a fluke. But I gotta tell you, it’s beyond frustrating to
encounter the same thing often enough to wonder –
what the hell?
In the aftermath of the Grabbys and IML, Chicago is teeming
with hordes of horny, available men, right? Boners around every corner. So what’s with guys trying to hook up when
they either can’t get it up, or can’t keep it up? I'm talking about young guys
here, too. So is the problem too much sex already? Too much drugs? Too much
alcohol? Lack of attraction? I mean, I’m pretty sure I look exactly like the
selfie I took less than an hour ago. I know a lot of people have already seen
me fuck (is that the problem, maybe?), but I'm still just a guy who likes to
get laid. I guess my question is: why get online for sex, when you either can’t
or aren't actually into having sex? I'm
not saying it happens all the time (#ColbyDoesAmerica would come to a pretty
quick demise if that were the case), but
I do have to wonder. Nothing is more awkward than having to ask guys to
leave your hotel room because they can’t get it up or they can, then can’t cum. Anyone else experience this oddity?
I know there are tons of guys out there who love to fuck as
much as I do. Come on out and let’s leave these other guys to waste someone
else’s time. I've still got a lot of
states to cover, so if you want to get involved, hit me up at bigshoediaries at
gmail dot com!
